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DISCLAIMER -
This is NOT intended to be professional advice of ANY sort!!
Please talk to your attorney and accountant about your affairs -
Your situation is unique to YOU!!
This is simply some of what I did - and it may or may not be -
What you want/need to do when the time comes - ;))
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That first Friday -
I made two more BUSINESS calls - ;))
My husband got a pension from his former employer -
And I had a copy of one of his checks in the binder -
Thinking that was all I needed -
BUT -
Nowhere on the check was a PHONE NUMBER to call -
So I had to look that up -
And figure out exactly whom I needed to inform of his death - ;))
Also -
Our Medical and Dental Insurance Premiums -
Though his former employer -
Were deducted from his pension check -
And my premium changed from “Family” coverage to “Surviving Spouse” -
So I had to contact his former employer’s HR department -
To inform them and arrange for the payment of the new premiums - ;))
PLEASE REMEMBER -
This is simply some of what I did -
And it may or may not be what you want or need to do -
When the time comes - ;))
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HOMEWORK -
Make a list of CURRENT/FORMER EMPLOYER contacts to notify -
PENSION people - if your husband gets a pension check -
Make a copy of the check -
AND -
Get the name and phone number of the person you need to notify in the event of his death -
HUMAN RESOURCES DEPT -
If Medical/Dental insurance is deducted from the pension check -
Get the name and phone number of the person you need to notify in the event of his death -
These people can also spread the word around the “office” -
And save you some phone calls and emails - ;))
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WARNING - BOB is my alter ego - Bitchy Old Broad.
BOB's adventures are basically rants - some funny - some silly - some stupid - some sad - some just plain bitchy -
depending on your point of view. Also be warned that I may cuss/swear on this blog. If that offends you - don't read it.
I'm a grown-up and I can swear if I want to. It's my blog. Also - these opinions are only my opinions - I could be wrong. ;))
If you haven't already - you may want to read my posts - Meet BOB - and BOB went to Target.
If you prefer not to read rants - STOP READING NOW!!
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WARNING - BOB is my alter ego - Bitchy Old Broad.
BOB's adventures are basically rants - some funny - some silly - some stupid - some sad - some just plain bitchy -
depending on your point of view. Also be warned that I may cuss/swear on this blog. If that offends you - don't read it.
I'm a grown-up and I can swear if I want to. It's my blog. Also - these opinions are only my opinions - I could be wrong. ;))
If you haven't already - you may want to read my posts - Meet BOB - and BOB went to Target.
If you prefer not to read rants - STOP READING NOW!!
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Wednesday, October 15, 2014
Wednesday, October 8, 2014
Widowhood Wednesday - 10/8/14
DISCLAIMER -
This is NOT intended to be professional advice of ANY sort!!
Please talk to your attorney and accountant about your affairs -
Your situation is unique to YOU!!
This is simply some of what I did - and it may or may not be -
What you want/need to do when the time comes - ;))
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My husband died on a Thursday -
So the next day - Friday -
I contacted the first batch of BUSINESS people -
And another FAMILY member -
Then I was able to concentrate on notifying -
More FAMILY and FRIENDS -
Over the weekend -
Before contacting more BUSINESS people on Monday - ;))
The first three BUSINESS people I notified were -
Our Attorney - for “Family Trust” issues -
It seems that nobody makes a “Will” these days -
Having a “Family Trust” is the current rage -
Our Accountant - because I don’t DO our taxes anymore - haha -
And the IRS and State Income Tax Dept need to know that he died -
And the accountant can take care of that for me -
Our Financial Advisor - who handles our IRA’s -
We each have one -
And they each have beneficiaries -
In the event of our deaths -
And as I made my calls -
I made a note of who needed a “Certified” copy of the Death Certificate -
And who would accept a “regular” copy -
Because the dang things are expensive -
And I didn’t want to get more than I needed - ;))
PLEASE REMEMBER -
This is simply some of what I did -
And it may or may not be what you want or need to do -
When the time comes - ;))
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HOMEWORK -
Make a list of BUSINESS contacts to notify -
Your Attorney - if you have one or have a “Family Trust” -
Your Accountant - if you have one do your taxes -
Your Financial Advisor - if you have one or any investments or IRAs -
This is NOT intended to be professional advice of ANY sort!!
Please talk to your attorney and accountant about your affairs -
Your situation is unique to YOU!!
This is simply some of what I did - and it may or may not be -
What you want/need to do when the time comes - ;))
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My husband died on a Thursday -
So the next day - Friday -
I contacted the first batch of BUSINESS people -
And another FAMILY member -
Then I was able to concentrate on notifying -
More FAMILY and FRIENDS -
Over the weekend -
Before contacting more BUSINESS people on Monday - ;))
The first three BUSINESS people I notified were -
Our Attorney - for “Family Trust” issues -
It seems that nobody makes a “Will” these days -
Having a “Family Trust” is the current rage -
Our Accountant - because I don’t DO our taxes anymore - haha -
And the IRS and State Income Tax Dept need to know that he died -
And the accountant can take care of that for me -
Our Financial Advisor - who handles our IRA’s -
We each have one -
And they each have beneficiaries -
In the event of our deaths -
And as I made my calls -
I made a note of who needed a “Certified” copy of the Death Certificate -
And who would accept a “regular” copy -
Because the dang things are expensive -
And I didn’t want to get more than I needed - ;))
PLEASE REMEMBER -
This is simply some of what I did -
And it may or may not be what you want or need to do -
When the time comes - ;))
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HOMEWORK -
Make a list of BUSINESS contacts to notify -
Your Attorney - if you have one or have a “Family Trust” -
Your Accountant - if you have one do your taxes -
Your Financial Advisor - if you have one or any investments or IRAs -